3 C in a relationship

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" If u dunno, then ask. If u dont agree, then argue.

If u dont like it, then say it. But dont keep silent and judge me.."

Arini aku nk tulis psl rship sket.. Bukan ape, bg aku ramai org yg x phm n x reti nk kekalkan rship.. Actly bknlah nk tulis psl motivasi pon.. Just nk brainwash sket je.hehehe

Ramai org yg x suke changes kan, especially bile ade org try ubah diri kt.. Kt akn take it sooo defensive, mcm ini aku, aku nk ko terima aku seadanya. If ko xleh trime aku seadanye so we r not meant to be. Mesti ade di antara korg yg b'pikiran mcm tu kan?

Honestly to say, bkn korg je pk cmtu.. Every single person pk cmtu.. N bnde ni adelah one of the biggest thing yg leh influence rship korg to be in the right track or not. Here comes the first trick!! COMMUNICATE!!!

Di awal mule perkenalan, of cos korg akn nk knl org ni cmne, leh msuk ke x kan.. Tp seyesly korg x akan knl psgn korg tym ni.. Korg hengat everybody will being honest tym awal2 ni.. Bullshit!! Every thing sume nmpk cntk indah ketut pon bau perfume.. After korg da get used to each other baru lah actly korg akn btol2 communicate, bkn communicate i cinta u, u cinta i. Tp communicate dr segi ape yg korg suka n x suka utk psgn msg2 r..

Contohnye, Azhan (bkn name sbnr) sebenarnye da biase pegi mane2 pakai slipar je, bg die, ini identiti die.. Amy (bkn name sbnr) pulak x suka org yg selekeh, n bg die pki slipar g Mall actly is not tolerable.. Disbbkn bru knl so mls r nk tegur ape2 kan, da suke, bese r kentut pon bau perfume.. Tp memandangkan da lame knonnye, so amy mencube mcm2 care2 nk ubah penampilan Azhan ni, bg smart sket laki die ni r knonnye.. So communicate memainkan peranan di sini.. camne? Lu pk r sendiri..

Yg Azhan lak x b'kenan dgn habit Amy ni yg suke mkn mknn yg same je.. xnk cube bnde baru.. Kalo mkn ke blk2 bnde same.. Azhan nk Amy cube sesuatu yg baru, mknn pakaian even aktiviti..

Put urself into other person's shoes, korg suke ditegur dgn care cmne. bek2, beralas, perli, or diarah.. so pls choose ur own approach here.. x sume org suke ditegur, nak2 plak bnde tu die bgga. hmmm So how??

The second trick come!! COMPROMISE!!!
Aku dpt advice compromise ni dr Aunt Wai Lin, boss aku tym keje Kumon dulu.. Aunt Wai Lin ni punye r byk giler cakap, boleh kate 24 hour die b'ckp je.. And uncle plak seorang yg pendiam je.. Aunty kate die compromise ngn uncle, put a quota utk ckp.. so ble hbs quota n die nk ckp lg, die dbnrkn bergayut ngn kwn2 die.. So win-win situation la. xde r sorg kat sini x layan or terase.

Part compromise ni x byk org leh fhm n practice, sbb sume nye nk selfish, n tp x sdr korg selfish.. Listen!! korg xkn boleh COMPROMISE kalo korg x COMMUNICATE dulu.. Ape yg korg x suke ttg psgn korg, pls communicate in a GUD way, n compromise it with each other.. Kalo rse nk kekal r..
Last but not least, COOPERATE!!! ingt sng ke nk practice compromising ni?? Korg kne cooperate ok, together.. Kalo hanye sorg je yg bg effort, sorg lg x, emm.. Agk susah r kawan!! So, renung-renungkan dan selamat beramal!!! hehehe